
An au-pair is a young person, single,
without children, between the ages of 17 and 27 normally from Europe who
wishes to live as part of a family. They receive free board / lodging
and pocket money and in return are required to undertake light household
work and childcare / babysitting duties. The rates for pocket money are
set by the British Government.
An au-pair is not a qualified nanny nor
a domestic. His / Her experience in child care / housework is the one
gained in her own home. She should be fully instructed before being left
in sole charge of the household or children for any length of time.
An au-pair should expect to be treated
as an "elder daughter" with rights and appropriate responsibilities. She
should have her own room and be expected to take part in family activities.
As she is here to learn the language of her hosts' country she should
be allowed to attend a language class if she wishes to do so.
Duties
An au-pair may be asked to work 5 hours
5 days per week. Pocket money for au-pairs is normally a minimum of £50
per week.
Childcare: Preparing breakfast,
taking / collecting children from school, helping with homework, playing
games, feeding, bathing, dressing and reading them bedtime stories, taking
them for walks and outings.
Housework: Vacuum cleaning, dusting,
making beds, washing (most families have washing machines), cleaning,
ironing, simple cooking, helping with meal preparation e.g. peeling vegetables.
Free Time: 2 full days at the weekend,
they must be free to attend and English language class if they wish (classes
are normally 2 or 3 times per week).
Mother's Helps
Where the mother is at home with the children
she wants another pair of hands to help with the care of children and
housework. Although less experience is required to work under supervision
as a Mother's Help it is important to like children and to be flexible
about duties.
Typical duties expected of a Mother's
Help are:
- Assisting the mother with the daily routine from the time the children
get up until they are in bed.
- Sorting and putting laundry in the washing machine and tumble dryer,
then putting away clean clothes. Ensuring that repairs are made when
necessary.
- Assisting with shopping and cooking, cleaning children's rooms and
play areas (light housework). Most households employ cleaners for the
heavy work.
- Playing with and entertaining children creatively, taking them to
nursery school or approved play schemes, babysitting once or twice a
week. Driving may be required.
- May accompany the family to the country for weekends and holidays.
- Time off is at least one and half to two days and evenings per week.
- Some families may require you to take sole charge of the children
and do housework unsupervised. You are not expected to take sole charge
of a newborn or very young baby.
- Mother's Helps can be live-in or live out.
- Mother's Helps can expect to be paid £80-£200 depending on the hours
and conditions of service.
Au-pairs upon arrival should register
with a local doctor. The National Health Service offers free emergency
treatment / health care to EU nationals.
Whilst every attempt is made to match
au-pairs with suitable families the key to a satisfactory au-pair placement
requires flexibility and tolerance on both sides. Au-pairs who come from
Turkey are required to register with the police within one week of entry
into the country at either a local station or at the address below if
they live in the London area (the registration fee is £30):
Overseas Visitors Records Office
10 Lambs Conduit Street
London WC1
Tel: 020 7230 1208
Failure to register could result in a
fine or even imprisonment.
Au-pairs are not allowed to make arrangements
for their friends to go to their family or any other family who are customers
of this agency. Au-pairs must contact the agency if they wish for any
such arrangement to be made or they will be liable to pay an agency fee
of £300.
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